New York Family Law Blog

Published on: April 6, 2013

Court Decides Validity of Custody Order from Dominican Republic

by Stephen Bilkis

In this Family case, the subject children are the parties’ twin sons, born in the Dominican Republic. The father obtained a default order of custody there in 2002, an order appealed by the mother and affirmed by the Dominican court, a month after she had brought the boys to the United States. In quick succession, the Integrated Domestic Violence Court—which has jurisdiction over both criminal and Family law matters—received a criminal prosecution against the father based on his alleged threats to kill the mother; a writ of habeas corpus filed by the father under article 6 of the Family Court Act seeking enforcement of the Dominican custody order; a petition for custody of the two boys filed by the mother under article 6 of the Family Court Act; and a Family offense petition filed the same day by the mother under article 8 of the Family Court Act, alleging additional acts of domestic violence.

A Bronx County Family Attorney said that a law guardian assigned to represent the children reported an extensive history of domestic violence. Based upon this information, the court assumed temporary emergency jurisdiction under Domestic Relations Law § 76-c, and directed the Administration for Children’s Services to interview both parents and the children.

A New York Family Lawyer said the review of the documents of the Dominican proceedings confirms that the mother and father separated in 1998. At that time, pursuant to an agreement signed before assistant to the prosecutor, the father consented to the terms of an order of protection, agreeing to refrain from assaulting the mother verbally or physically, and to vacate the Family home until the mother was able to find other housing. He agreed to pay child support, and was given regular visitations as long as he behaves appropriately. The mother left the Dominican Republic in 1999, leaving the children with her mother, remarrying in 2000. Five weeks later, while the mother was still in the United States, the father filed a claim for custody of the two children in the Court of the First Instance for Children and Adolescents of the Distrito Nacional. The maternal grandmother, who had physical custody of the children at the time, was named as defendant in the matter.

Published on: April 6, 2013

Court Determines if Subpoenas Were Defective

by Stephen Bilkis

In an action by the guardian of the person and property of an incompetent (ward), the founder and former president and chief executive officer of defendant and third-party plaintiff, a not-for-profit corporation formed in 1968 to deliver various health-related and other services to the poor in the South Bronx. A New York Family Lawyer said the suit includes claims for, among other things, breach of contract, an accounting of deferred compensation deposited into a trust account for the ward, liquidated damages, and breach of corporation’s obligation to pay the ward’s medical expenses and retirement benefits.

According to a New York Custody Lawyer, the corporation answered the complaint, denying the material allegations therein, and commenced a third-party action against the ward’s Family Trust, established by the members of his family, in which it alleges, inter alia, that the ward engaged in various acts of self-dealing and malfeasance, including improper maintenance of time records and misuse of corporate funds and credit cards for certain personal expenses for hotels, trips and gifts. According to the corporation, the incompetent previously obtained substantial payments and benefits from it and now seeks additional compensation based on unverified, inaccurate and unreliable time records, as well as unauthorized benefits and insurance policies for himself and others. The corporation also seeks damages and/or an offset against all amounts sought by plaintiff, plus a return of prior payments made to, or on behalf of, the ward during the period he breached his fiduciary duties, including disgorgement of assets transferred by the ward to the family trust.

Thereafter, the corporation served a total of 13 subpoenas duces tecum on nonparties, including 3 nonparty movants, seeking, inter alia, production of all documents concerning the ward’s relationship to the nonparty movants, any business trips taken by him on behalf of the nonparty movants, and the employment or equity interest of any member of his family in the nonparty movants. A Nassau County Family Lawyer said the subpoenas also sought all documents regarding any equity interest of the corporation’s former comptroller, and the payment of salary, benefits and dividends to him in connection with his relationship to the nonparty movants. Finally, the subpoenas sought all documents concerning any contracts between the nonparty movants and the corporation.

Published on: April 5, 2013

Respondent Mother Found in Civil Contempt

by Stephen Bilkis

In this abuse and neglect case, the Administration for Children’s Services (ACS) filed child neglect petitions, pursuant to Family Court Act Article 10, against Respondent Mother in Bronx County Family Court. A New York Family Lawyer said the petitions alleged that a hospital social worker stated that the child, two years of age, had been in the hospital since January 2009, due to his failure-to-thrive and developmental delays, and that he had special needs, a G-tube, which was required for feeding, and a colostomy bag, and that he required exceptional care and special medical equipment. The social worker stated that Respondent Mother had taken the child on a visit and then refused to return him to the hospital. She did not have necessary medical supplies, nor had she completed the medical training to care for the child.

A Bronx Family Attorney said that when Respondent Mother returned the child to the hospital on July 2010, the child was “observed by hospital staff to be dehydrated with sunken eyes and dry lips. The subject child had also lost approximately 20 percent of his body weight.” The Petition also alleged that in January 2010 she attempted to remove the child from the hospital without permission and the police had to be called. In the seven months prior to June 2010, Respondent Mother had visited with the child only three times and had not called the hospital to inquire about him. The Petition further stated that the four children who resided with Respondent Mother did not have up-to-date immunizations. A New York Custody Lawyer said the Petition alleged that all of the children were neglected children or in imminent danger of becoming neglected.

Thereafter, an ACS Attorney and an ACS Caseworker appeared before the Court. The Caseworker stated that he had told Respondent Mother of that day’s court date and she told him she would be present. However, she did not appear. He informed the Court that he was not certain as to the whereabouts of the Respondent Mother and the subject children. ACS requested the Court to remand the children to the custody of the ACS Commissioner. The Court directed the ACS Caseworker to step outside to telephone Respondent Mother to inquire as to where she and the children were, and arrange to meet with her. The case was recalled, and the ACS Caseworker returned to court and said that he had spoken to Respondent Mother. She had refused to divulge her location and that of the children. He said he had scheduled a meeting with her at the ACS Brooklyn Field Office. Based on Respondent Mother’s refusal to disclose her whereabouts and that of the children, the Court issued a Warrant of Arrest for Respondent Mother, and ordered production of the children, but stayed execution of the Warrant, directing Respondent Mother to appear voluntarily in Court on July 2010, with the children. The Court granted ACS’s request to remand the child, who remained hospitalized, but denied ACS’s request to remand the four children who resided with Respondent Mother. The Court instructed the ACS Caseworker to inform Respondent Mother of its mandate that she appear in court, provide her with the stayed warrant, again request information as to where she and the subject children were residing, and inquire as to the children’s health care.

Published on: April 3, 2013

Court Determines Neglect within Meaning of Family Court Act

by Stephen Bilkis

On March 12, 1996, the accused mother brought her two-year-old daughter to North Central Bronx Hospital for a neurological examination and psychiatric evaluation on the recommendation of her pediatrician. The child suffered from febrile seizures, frequent ear infections and pica, an eating disorder involving ingestion of nonfood such as paint chips. The director of the hospital’s Child and Adolescent Crisis Intervention Program, which operates out of the emergency room, examined the child and observed the mother’s behavior while she was in the emergency room with her daughter. A New York Family Lawyer said he testified at the Family Court fact-finding hearing she was extremely irritable and hostile toward the child. Specifically, she called the child a bitch; repeatedly referred to the child as a bad child. The child deliberately engaged in disruptive behavior to irritate her mother, such as climbing on the stove, turning on the burners, and setting papers on fire. The mother said that her child barely slept at night, and that she in turn prevented the child from napping during the day to show her what it felt like to stay awake. While at the hospital, when the child indicated she had to go to the bathroom, the mother told her to go ahead and wet herself. The accused mother also said it was a miracle that she had not killed the child; that she had thoughts of killing herself; and that she had an insurance policy that would take care of her other children.

The hospital director observed that, while in the emergency room, the child stayed away from her mother, running and climbing everywhere but the mother made no effort to supervise or restrain her. Based on his observations and examination of the child, he believed that Megan was suffering from various language disorders and hearing impairment, as well as severe hyper-activity. A New York Custody Lawyer said based on the mother’s statement that the child ate lipstick, nail polish and powder, he suspected that she might also have lead poisoning. He informed the mother that her child needed certain assessments or tests, and explained that some of her disruptive behavior might be due to her physical ailments. She denied that the child suffered from any of the physical ailments enumerated and initially refused to consent to any of the tests, insisting that the child did not need them.

The hospital director further testified that the accused mother said three times that she had a weapon on her and made specific threats toward him and other hospital staff. He and the staff became so concerned by her behavior and threats that they were moved to contact the adult psychiatric emergency room to have respondent examined.

Published on: April 2, 2013

Court Hears Case Regarding Professional Misconduct of Legal Counsel

by Stephen Bilkis

The petition contains 10 charges of professional misconduct against the accused counsel. After a hearing, the Special Referee sustained all 10 charges. The Grievance Committee moved to confirm the Special Referee’s report. A New York Family Lawyer said in response to the Grievance Committee’s motion, the accused counsel submits that, although his misconduct adversely reflects upon his fitness to practice law, it does not rise to the level suggested by Grievance Counsel with respect to a final sanction. The accused requests that any further discipline be limited to a suspension of one year, retroactive to the date of his interim suspension.

As set forth in the petition, the accused counsel was on the Family Court Panel of the Assigned Counsel Plan for the Appellate Division, First Department between approximately 1980 and March 4, 1996. As an attorney on the panel, the accused was assigned to represent indigent clients in the Bronx County Family Court.

A New York Custody Lawyer said on or about October 1992, the accused was assigned to represent a client in a Family Court matter in Bronx. During several meetings with that client, in conference rooms at the Bronx County Family Court, the accused man addressed sexually suggestive remarks to the complainant, requesting all the time that she touch his penis.

Published on: April 1, 2013

Petitioner Seeks Protective Order in Light of Domestic Violence

by Stephen Bilkis

On June 30, 2010, Petitioner filed an Illegal Lockout proceeding by order to show cause in lieu of notice of petition, alleging that on May 5, 2010, his wife, Respondent had illegally locked him out of their apartment located at 1880 Valentine Avenue, Bronx, New York. Neither party appeared on the return date nor did the court dismiss the petition. A New York Family Lawyer said that, petitioner filed a second Illegal Lockout proceeding. On that occasion, Petitioner alleged that Respondent wife had locked him out of the subject premises in February 2010. Although Respondent appeared, Petitioner again failed to appear and the court dismissed that proceeding as well.

A New York Custody Lawyer said that, petitioner filed the Illegal Lockout proceeding now before the court, by order to show cause in lieu of notice of petition, on July 16, 2010, alleging that his wife had locked him out of the subject premises. Petitioner further alleged that he had contacted the police and that the police ordered him to leave. On July 23, 2010, both parties appeared and this court ascertained that on July 16, 2010, Family Court, Bronx County, granted each party a Temporary Order of Protection against the other. The Order of Protection obtained by respondent directed to petitioner, to stay away from respondent and the three minor children who reside with her at 1880 Valentine Avenue, Bronx, New York, and expressly excluded Petitioner from their home, the subject premises. In addition, Petitioner herein was directed to stay away from respondent’s place of employment and to refrain from any communication or other contact with the parties listed in the Order, except for court-ordered visitation with the parties’ infant child. Further, there was currently pending in Family Court a Family Offense proceeding, and a child custody and visitation proceeding, which listed petitioner’s address as 1160 Wheeler Avenue, Apt. # 1, Bronx, New York, not the address of the subject premises of this Lockout proceeding. Based upon the information presented, this court determined that Family Court was the most appropriate forum to resolve the parties’ dispute and dismissed the petition. The parties were directed to seek recourse in Family Court.

A Queens Family Lawyer said that, petitioner filed an order to show cause in Housing Court, alleging that the Family Court petition did not accurately state his address. On July 30, 2010, this court denied Petitioner’s motion based upon improper service. On August 4, 2010, Petitioner filed a second order to show cause in which he alleged that he had proof that Family Court had misstated his address. On August 13, 2010, the motion was adjourned to September 7, 2010. Petitioner failed to appear and the court again denied the motion.

Published on: March 20, 2013

Mother Charged with Severe Abuse of Child

by Stephen Bilkis

On June 9, 2009, the Administration for Children’s Services (ACS) filed a petition against Respondent Mother alleging she had abused and neglected her daughter. On June 8, 2009, a physician at the Medical Center reported that the child was brought to the hospital by EMS after Respondent found the child in an abnormal sleeping position and when he repositioned the child he had an abnormal pulse. A New York Family Lawyer said the child was brought to the hospital at 4:53 p.m. at which time he was pulse-less and all attempts to revive the child were unsuccessful; the child was pronounced dead at 6:30 p.m. The medical examiner reported that the official cause of death for the child is whiplash, shaking and blunt impacts of the head with subarachnoid and subdural hemorrhages. The child’s death has been ruled a homicide.

A New York Custody Lawyer said that, respondent-mother admitted to ACS ESC and Police at the 47th precinct that on June 8, 2009, the child, woke up around 1:00 p.m. and was fussing and crying and didn’t want to sleep. The Respondent mother admitted that she was stressed out and tired and that the Respondent-mother shook the baby forcefully, several times at which point the baby stopped crying and the Respondent mother put him back in bed to sleep.

A New York Custody Lawyer said that, in its Summation dated November 7, 2011, ACS stated that it has presented clear and convincing evidence that Respondent Mother acted with a depraved indifference to human life in causing serious physical injuries to the seven-month-old infant that resulted in his death. ACS stated that it had proven “aggravated circumstances” and that the infant was a “severely” abused child as defined in Family Court Act § 1012 (j) and Social Services Law § 384-b (8) (a), and that Respondent Mother failed to rebut any of the evidence presented by ACS. ACS urged the court to make a derivative finding of severe abuse as defined in Social Services Law 384-b (8) (a) as to the subject child. Further, based on the clear and convincing evidence of the heinous nature of Respondent Mother’s abuse of the infant, ACS stated that the court should terminate its duty to provide reasonable efforts to assist Respondent Mother in reunification with the surviving child.

Published on: March 19, 2013

Mother Petitions Court for Relocation

by Stephen Bilkis

The parties were married in January 2004, separated about a year and a half later and were divorced on July 13, 2006. They are the parents of a now six-year-old boy born on May 17, 2004. A New York Family Lawyer said the stipulation settling the divorce case granted the mother legal and physical custody of the child. The father had visitation every week from Monday at 8:00 p.m. until Wednesday at 6:00 p.m. The stipulation allowed relocation within 25-miles of the father’s house in the Bronx. The father has had a history of irregular employment and is currently not employed. At the time of trial, the mother, who is remarried, cared for her younger child from her second marriage, full time.

A New York Custody Lawyer said that, after the parties separated, the mother remained in the marital apartment in the Bronx with the child for two years. In the fall of 2007, she began working as a project administrator in the construction field. In 2007, she moved with the child and her boyfriend to Connecticut. The mother testified that she always wanted her son to be in a suburban environment. She stated that she was trying “to mirror my own childhood. I had a wonderful suburban upbringing.” The relationship in Connecticut ended when the boyfriend returned to his native New Zealand. The mother returned to New York with the child and moved into an apartment in Harlem.

A Queens Family Lawyer said that, in March 2008, the mother met her future husband, on Match.com. He was retired from the Air Force, lived in North Carolina and was then involved in a nation-wide job search. Ultimately, he took a job with Northrop Grumman in San Diego. He had requested to work at Northrop Grumman’s Long Island branch, but the company could not accommodate his request. The mother and his future husband became engaged in May 2008. Soon after her engagement, the mother approached the father about moving to California to live with her future husband. The father was concerned about the distance and the stability of the mother’s new relationship.

Published on: March 18, 2013

Court Determines if Abused Mother Leaving Home Affects Child Custody

by Stephen Bilkis

A husband seeks custody of their two children from his wife who surreptitiously left the conjugal home in New York and took the children to Virginia where the wife’s relatives all lived.

During the trial, the husband and the wife testified. A New York Family Lawyer said the mother-in-law of the wife and the sister-in-law of the wife also testified for the husband and against the wife. The judge took the two children to a nearby park and interviewed the children. The judge videotaped this interview with the children.

During the custody hearing it was proved that the husband and the wife had a child when they were just teenagers. They got married within three years after the birth of their first child. The wife was emotionally and physically abused. The abuse consisted of sexual assault. The husband would force the wife to have sex. He would kick the woman and bite her, hit her with his fists in her back and buttocks. He also constantly criticized and insulted her within the hearing of their children. Both the husband and the wife took drugs. A New York Custody Lawyer said the wife’s injuries were documented by emergency room visits where the nature and extent of her injuries were reported. The husband and wife were separated from each other for nine months. During these nine months, the husband fathered a child by another woman. He then left his newborn child by another woman and returned to the conjugal home. By that time, the wife had already sobered up and was no longer using drugs. The husband continued to use drugs and the sexual assault of the wife by the husband continued until the woman escaped the conjugal home with her two children and left for Virginia.

Published on: March 5, 2013

Court Orders Psychiatric Counseling for Both Parents

by Stephen Bilkis

A husband seeks custody of their two children from his wife who surreptitiously left the conjugal home in New York and took the children to Virginia where the wife’s relatives all lived.

During the trial, the husband and the wife testified. A New York Family Lawyer said the mother-in-law of the wife and the sister-in-law of the wife also testified for the husband and against the wife. The judge took the two children to a nearby park and interviewed the children. The judge videotaped this interview with the children.

During the custody hearing it was proved that the husband and the wife had a child when they were just teenagers. They got married within three years after the birth of their first child. The wife was emotionally and physically abused. The abuse consisted of sexual assault. The husband would force the wife to have sex. He would kick the woman and bite her, hit her with his fists in her back and buttocks. He also constantly criticized and insulted her within the hearing of their children. A New York Custody Lawyer said both the husband and the wife took drugs. The wife’s injuries were documented by emergency room visits where the nature and extent of her injuries were reported. The husband and wife were separated from each other for nine months. During these nine months, the husband fathered a child by another woman. He then left his newborn child by another woman and returned to the conjugal home. By that time, the wife had already sobered up and was no longer using drugs. The husband continued to use drugs and the sexual assault of the wife by the husband continued until the woman escaped the conjugal home with her two children and left for Virginia.